预约成功
Winners do not play “helpless”, nor do they play the blaming game. Instead, they assume responsibility for their own lives. They do not give others a false authority over them. Winners are their own bosses and know it.
A winner’s timing is right. Winners respond appropriately to the situation. Their responses are related to the message sent and preserve the significance, worth, wellbeing, and dignity of the people involved. Winners know that for everything there is a season and for every activity a time.
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赢者不假装“可怜无助”，博取同情，也不玩弄游戏，责怪别人。相反，他们为自己的生活承担应尽的责任。他们不给别人名不符实的权威，不让别人凌驾于他们之上。赢者主宰自己的命运，对此他们一清二楚。
赢者擅于审时度势，对形势做出合适的反应。他们做出的反应与发出的信息密切相关，并维护有关人员的地位、价值、利益和尊严。赢者明白，每件事情都有其适宜的时机，每个行动都有其恰当的时刻。
